establishing oneself in society, honoring one's wife and children, respecting the elderly and loving the young...I looked at the Buddhist abbot next to me and silently flipped him off in my head.Respe...Song Wei couldn't understand the sentence, but I often walk around the neighborhood. With these obscure and difficult words, I can guess seven or eight out of ten.
In the old days, it was said that people with a pure yang four pillars (a term in Chinese astrology) were strong-willed. Men were prone to loneliness, and women to widowhood.
From a personality analysis standpoint, there is a sliver of truth, but that's all.
Between husband and wife, one should always know how to give and take. Just like Jiang Qiyun, with his status, he sometimes lets me have my way too.
Being too rigid and unwilling to compromise, year after year, will wear you down.
Fate is ultimately predetermined, and the postnatal growth environment also greatly influences personality. Therefore, it's not possible to simply determine a person's life path solely based on their birth chart.
Song Wei didn't understand and was too lazy to investigate. She said to me, "These old ladies' children are all working outside, and their grandchildren have been brought to the city to study, so they have nothing to do but crack sunflower seeds and gossip on the doorstep!"
If you hear them gossiping, just ignore them. Let's go and see if the feng shui in this house is good, or if there's anything amiss.
I nodded and said, “There’s no problem with that, but you should greet the owner first… After all, this is their home. Making such a hasty decision without consulting them isn’t quite right, is it”
Song Wei patted her head and said, "Look at me, I was in such a hurry that I didn't even pay attention to the details. You're so careful."
She stepped forward and rang the doorbell. An middle-aged woman opened the door a crack, saw Song Wei and exclaimed in surprise, "Oh, Xiaowei, what brings you here Come in, come in..."
"Hello, Aunt. This is my friend, we came together." Song Wei smiled reluctantly.
"Auntie, hello…" I also followed suit and called her Auntie.
"Come in, come in." She smiled and let us into the house.
I quietly asked Song Wei, "Who is this"
"Lao Shi's aunt is here taking care of the elderly..." Song Wei whispered.
The middle-aged woman looked quite elegant, in a loose cotton linen outfit, adorned with gold and silver jewelry.
"Oh my, you're still calling me aunt You can call me auntie now!" The woman led us to the living room on the first floor.
I thought to myself, you didn't even give a gift for the engagement, and you want people to call you "Auntie" You have to make them willing to do so! Talking like this on your own is a bit disrespectful to the woman.
Song Wei awkwardly smiled and said, “Lao Shi just went back to report to the organization and doesn’t know if he can get leave yet…”
"Oh, it's no big deal! Even if Lao Shi doesn't come back, we still have the bride getting married herself now, don't we Those soldiers guarding the borders and disaster relief workers aren't they marrying themselves too!" The woman said boldly.
This attitude, not to mention Song Wei, even I find it a little uncomfortable.
"I saw Song Wei enduring her temper, so I tried to comfort her: 'Auntie, marriage is a big life event, maybe only once in a lifetime. It's an important ceremony for both men and women. If Lao Shi isn't home, why not wait Maybe the organization will finish its review soon. Then you can calmly prepare for the wedding."
The woman paused for a moment, then said with a hint of disdain, "Oh... you, you know quite a lot..."
Song Wei immediately said: "This is my good friend. Her family is from a Taoist lineage. She can see anything, like numerology, feng shui, or strange and evil things! I invited her to come to our house and have a look—"
A woman interrupted, “Oh, speaking of the Eight Characters, I had yours checked by Old Zhang from the village. The results aren't ready yet. Just sit here for a moment while I go get them.”
I thought to myself, wasn't that the toothless old woman standing by the gate No wonder she mumbled something about "Four Pillars Pure Yang male must be lonely, Four Pillars Pure Yin female will harm her husband" as soon as she saw Song Wei.
I carefully asked: "Auntie, haven't you looked at Song Wei's eight characters yet How did you decide on the date for the banquet"
< > Let me know if you have any other text you'd like me to translate! I'm ready for more.
"Well...we'll first take a look at my nephew's eight characters, " the woman said, somewhat awkwardly. "Auntie Zhang said that day was good, so we booked it then!"
Doesn't it matter how those days were for the woman I feel a little upset.
"I invited this friend to take a look at the Feng Shui layout of my house. Is that alright"
The woman paused, then smiled and said, "Oh, it's nice of you to be so considerate. You haven't even married in yet and you're already this helpful with housework... Alright, have a look. I'll ask Zhang's mother to come take a look later."
The way he said it... I could almost see the veins popping out on Song Wei's back.
"Then let's go around to the back of the house in the courtyard, and then we can look inside." Song Wei pulled me out.
The woman chased after him for two steps and called out, "Hey, come see grandma later!"
Song Wei eagerly pulled me out through the side door and made a forceful "breaking" motion.
“Look at those relatives of his, I'm telling you, they really make my teeth itch. They all think Lao Shi is their pride and joy, like I'm the one who's lucky to be with him! Some even said I was too young and that marrying Lao Shi would be a free ride because he has a good income!” Song Wei gritted her teeth. “I actually don't want to get married at all! It’s all because of his family!”
"So, you've already sent out the invitations..." I also felt that it was a bit inappropriate.
"I'll give you the wedding invitation, that's all. As for everything else, I don't care! Besides, it's just a banquet! I won't go get a marriage license! Although Lao Shi is a good person, his relatives are not my cup of tea! If they want to have a banquet, let them have one! It doesn't have any legal effect anyway!"
"Sighing, I patted Song Wei's shoulder. 'I feel this whole thing... is not right. It's good that you didn't impulsively get a marriage license... just having a wedding banquet is fine.'"
"Isn't that right Just to coax his elderly parents." Song Wei led me out of the field.
I pulled out my compass and started working. There's a mountain behind us, and in front of us is a large field. A newly constructed concrete road runs past the front door, and there's also a yard separating it all. It doesn't seem like there are any major issues.
However, not far from the side gate there was an old tree. I took out my compass and looked at the angle, then said to Song Wei, "Although this isn't the main gate, it's never good for a door to face a tree."
What's wrong
There is an old tree in front of the house, blocking the yang qi from entering and the yin qi from leaving. Although it’s a side door, it’s often opened and closed, so attention should still be paid…
Song Wei whispered, "Didn't you say that going straight would have an impact This doesn't seem to be facing directly..."
"This is still within the sixty-degree angle at the entrance, it's still influential. There's plenty of space here, just move it a little bit," I suggested.
Song Wei curled her lips and said, "Don't even talk about moving it. If we even move a bit of dirt, someone will say that it's their ancestor's tree! We'd have to pay compensation or something!"
Ah...indeed, these issues need attention.
"There aren't any major feng shui issues outside, and the house doesn't seem like there's anything wrong...Why are things always going downhill" I was puzzled.
Song Wei followed me around the courtyard, making a face and saying, "His grandmother is so superstitious. She heard that jade can bring good luck, so the old woman got herself a jade bracelet..."
Before I could finish speaking, I heard a chair fall inside the room, followed by the old man's cries of "Ai ai".
"Oh no, this must be from a fall!" Song Wei rushed inside.
This Song Wei, she's got a sharp tongue but a kind heart. She complains about her relatives all the time, but when the elders need help, she's always the first one there.
I also followed to the old man's room on the first floor.
The elderly man who was confined to his bed naturally had a smell in the room, but there was also a faint and eerie feeling in the air.lightly."I'm looking for your boss. I'm his friend. I've been trying to find him since yesterday, but no luck~," my brother said lazily, pulling out a cigarette and putting it in his mouth.He was just...